Relationships
When “Noted” Is Enough
On quiet disappointment, and choosing how much attention to give it.
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Reflections on relationships
Pieces about connection, distance, repair and the quiet drift that happens between two people who still care about each other. Written between sessions, mostly about the things couples find hard to say out loud.
Relationships
The Island Between Us
Why space, trust and a little island of your own can deepen connection.
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When Familiarity Becomes Complacency
The slow drift that happens when we stop noticing the person beside us.
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Part 2: When Staying Becomes the Easier Story to Tell Yourself
On the reasons we stay, and the stories we tell ourselves about them.
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Part 1: When Do I Know It’s Time to Leave a Relationship?
The exhaustion of broken repair cycles, and the quiet bravery of choosing yourself.
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Infidelity… and the Courage to Look a Little Deeper
On broken trust, and the courage it takes to understand ourselves and the relationship we were in.
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